Building Strong Children

Do you have children in your life? My children are now grown but I have grandchildren. I’m always thinking of ways to gently impact my grands for the Lord, adding to the teaching and guidance of their parents. Kids are amazing, taking in so much information around them every day. There is more of that external influence on them today than when I was a child, and much of it we don’t want them to know. I’ll bet you’ve noticed that too. Well, I’ve discovered a source of good information for those young minds and I want to share it with you.

Recently, I was introduced to a children’s devotional written by fellow blogger and author, Susanne Maynes. A few years ago I reviewed her devotional book Unleashing Your Courageous Compassion, a 40-day devotional especially for women who work in life-affirming ministries such as pregnancy centers.

Now Susanne has written and published a 40-day devotional workbook geared for children ages 8-12 years. Releasing Your Brave Love: Helping Kids to Change Their World builds from the ground up to do just what the title says: help kids to change their world. But first, they must understand why they and their world need changing. Here is life-influencing information we want our children to have!

Forty-day Devotional for kids. A great tool for parents.

Susanne Maynes, like a master builder, starts her devotional for children at the foundation level: God created you in his Image. Every person has worth and value because of that. Humans are a unique creation of God and Susanne slowly builds the walls of biblical truth, using Scripture, one brick of truth at a time in each of her daily two-page lessons.

Susanne starts with the foundational truths and as she builds on them she works her way to the crucial matter of children putting God’s truth into action in their lives. She brings up numerous everyday examples where a child can enact God’s way to bring change to his or her world. Knowing truth doesn’t help us or others if it isn’t acted upon and the author gently leads the way to the practical application of God’s word.

Susanne enhances the learning process by asking thoughtful questions creating teaching points parents can expand upon as they discuss the issues with their child. In this devotional, parents have been given a tool to use as they disciple their child. Since discipling our children is a tremendous responsibility for every parent, each tool is an asset!

There is much to appreciate and applaud in Susanne Maynes’ devotional for children, Releasing Your Brave Love. I highly recommend it for parents of children ages 8-12 years. I purchased one for my 8-year-old granddaughter and look forward to her working through it with her parents or even us, her grandparents.

Releasing Your Brave Love may be purchased online here. I encourage you to take a look at Releasing Your Brave Love for your 8-12 year old child, relative, or friend.

It’s Book Launch Day!

Wednesday, January 30th, is the day I’ve been counting down to for the past several weeks! This is the day my new book, Brokenness to Beauty Bible Study: Going Deeper to the Source of Transforming Your Brokenness to Beauty is ready to be introduced to the world.

Though Brokenness to Beauty Bible Study has been for sale online for about a month, I waited for this month to advertise it because December is an extra busy month for most of us (remember Christmas?).

One reviewer said of the Brokenness to Beauty Bible Study, “This ten week Bible study starts with a review of our own personal journey and helps each see how God is moving us onto a deeper relationship with Him ” (C.Reinoehl).

Another wrote these words about the Bible study, “She partners scripture to her teaching throughout the lessons and shares how the love and hope of Jesus brings healing to our broken and hurting places. Her validation of our stories and the truth of the healing power of Jesus, makes this a powerful Bible study” (Lynn Donovan, Author of Winning Him Without Words and Not Alone).

If you’d like to take a look at the Brokenness to Beauty Bible Study, you can go here to read more from inside the book or here to my website where I offer the paperback version of Brokenness to Beauty Bible Study and my book, Brokenness to Beauty for sale at discounted prices.

If you are an ebook reader, whether Kindle or Nook or another ebook form, you can get either one of my books in digital form for only 99 cents each at major online retailers.

Why is it important to introduce this Bible study to the world? I wrote it with the prayer that God will use it in people’s lives to help grow them stronger in Christ. One friend emailed me and said, “Jacque, you have hit a home run with that Bible study! … Writing a book is no mean feat, but writing a deep, life-changing Bible study to go with it is monumental!”

Life change. That’s what Bible study is all about. It is what we all need and should experience as we put into practice what we study in the Bible. This is my prayer and goal for the Brokenness to Beauty Bible Study, life change because Christians are growing in grace and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ as a result of using the study.

Will you help me achieve this goal? Pick up your copies of Brokenness to Beauty and Brokenness to Beauty Bible Study today. Start a Bible study with your friends!

To A Better New Year

The following is a reblogged post by Debbie W. Wilson. I thought it was so good I wanted to share it with you. You can read it here or go directly to Debbie’s website at
Debbie W. Wilson. Enjoy!

The last days of 2018 sped by like the final squares on a roll of toilet paper. In considering the New Year, my prayer is that I’ll manage my life instead of arbitrary influences controlling me. After the holidays, I have lots of things that need to be corralled—including sweets, spending, and schedules!

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The post Make 2019 Your Best Year Yet appeared first on Debbie W. Wilson.

Light … In the Darkness

This is the time of year when the daylight hours are fewer and the night darkness longer, at least for those of us in the northern hemisphere. So we put on our house lights sooner in the afternoon and leave them on later in the morning so we can see to do what we need to do.

In my house, the day after Thanksgiving signals the time to start pulling out the Christmas decorations. My favorite is the lights. Randy prefers the multicolored mini-lights over than the white lights so that is what we use to decorate with. He even strung them on our patio, which makes it festive and cheerful all year round.

This year he surprised me by designing a large five-point start on our front porch, with swags of lights running across the front of the porch. All who drive by can see our declaration that we believe in the Star of Bethlehem and the Christ whose birth we profess to celebrate.

When I get up in the early morning darkness now, I like to plug in the lights on our tiny tree and on the garland draped on the eight-foot tall, wide entryway from the living room into the dining room. I enjoy sitting in their soft glow, cup of coffee in hand.

Lights, whether white lights or multi-colored mini-lights, can bring us joy at this season. Lights bring us crucial assistance all year round, lighting the darkness.

There is another light crucial to our lives, the reality of which struck me as I recently began reading the book of John. Since then, I’ve been contemplating the Light that Scripture often refers to. In the gospel of John, some of John’s first words are:

In the beginning [before all time] was the Word (Christ), and the Word was with God, and the Word was God Himself. He was [continually existing] in the beginning [co-eternally]  with God. All things were made and came into existence through him; and without Him not even one thing was made that has come into being. In Him was life [and the power to bestow life], and the life was the Light of men. The Light shines on in the darkness, and the darkness did not understand it or overpower it or appropriate it or absorb it [and is unreceptive to it]. …

There it was—the true Light [the genuine, perfect, steadfast Light] which, coming into the world, enlightens everyone. He (Christ) was in the world, and though the world was made through Him, the world did not recognize Him. He came to that which was His own [that which belonged to Him—His world, His creation, His possession], and those who were His own [people—the Jewish nation] did not receive and welcome Him. But to as many as did receive and welcome Him, He gave the right [the authority, the privilege] to become children of God, that is, to those who believe in (adhere to, trust in, and rely on) His namewho were born,… of God [that is, a divine and supernatural birth—they are born of God—spiritually transformed, renewed, sanctified]. (John 1:1–5, 9–13 AMP, emphasis added)

This is the Light that transcends all other lights for it reaches well beyond the physical realm alone. This Light reaches all the way to eternity.

Jesus Christ, who is God, the Creator of everything, who has life in himself, has come into our world to give that life, the Light, to everyone who will receive it. The more I think about these words, the more amazed and moved I become!

This is the Light that will bring to us true and lasting joy; the right to become children of God! This Light brings the joy and peace of the presence of God and the assurance of eternal life, the life Jesus Christ bestows on us when we embrace by faith the Light of Christ.

Do you have that Light and life by faith in Jesus Christ?

What are we then to do with that Light?

Let’s keep contemplating the Light and see what God teaches us.

May this Christmas you have a blessed celebration of the entrance of the Light of the world, Jesus Christ, into our darkness!

Photo by Dan Kiefer on Unsplash

Welcome to my new website and blog!

Since starting to blog in 2008, I’ve made two blogging name changes and site moves. The first was from JacquesJourney (Blogger) to BrokennesstoBeauty (WordPress.com) in 2014.  This year I changed the name again, to Living with Hope and Purpose and made the big leap to set up my own website. I’ve moved in and set up housekeeping so …

It’s open house time! I hope you will take a look around the website, sign on to continue getting my blog posts, plus a complimentary download, and occasional tidbits of inspiration or valuable information from me.

Send me your comments using the comment button with this post; I’d love to hear from you. Thanks for stopping by!

 

“Open” sign Photo by Álvaro Serrano on Unsplash 

“Letters” photo by Gabor from Hungary 

Power Lifting for Jesus = JOY


(Centerpoint Church of Colton, CA, volunteers serving with MCCA delivering foodstuffs to Christian orphanages in Mexico. Our son Seth is the good-looking guy in the black T-shirt and his handsome son Caleb [a little family bragging here] is in the white T-shirt, his head being squished by his cousin twice removed, Colton; his girlfriend Hailey is next to him. My friend Bob is on the far left. He’s been doing this for over 30 years and is grateful for the young, strong backs joining him! Read on to find out more about where they are and what they are doing, and why.)

For the most part, I’m on facebook to see what my kids are up to and I’m glad I saw this post by our son Seth. He gave me permission to use it for this blog post.

A verse came to mind as I thought about this post, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth” (3 John 4, NIV). I am happy when I see or hear of my sons following the Lord in whatever he calls them to do. Here is one way Seth is serving the Lord, and by taking Caleb with him, he is discipling him and modeling for him the kinds of things godly men do when they love Jesus. From one generation to the next …. Read on.

By Seth Wallace

On Saturday my son, Caleb, and I went with Mexican Christian Children’s Aid (MCCA, http://mccaredlands.org) taking food supplies to Christian orphanages in Mexico. I spent 15 hours on the road, loaded and unloaded 4,000lb in our truck alone, helped load other trucks, hauled 6- 100lb packs of blankets up nearly vertical stairs in TJ (Tijuana, MX), sat for 2 hours at the border crossing, and got home tired!

The “hard work” of the day, the “frustration” of traffic and driving, the “inconvenience” of a precious weekend taken … is real … but I consider it JOY. I realize what a small sacrifice of time energy and money it really is with Kingdom eyes! So did 20+ other volunteers!

The call to serve others has been given to ALL believers in Christ! Those opportunities to serve can just look like hard work. They are, but it is extremely rewarding to know that others, especially the vulnerable children, will be safe, fed, warm, loved, and blessed!

There is truly no ego or boasting when I post this! Because of the need, I’d love for this to serve as an encouragement to action for you to be God’s hands and feet, with work boots and gloves, and come serve with me!

Centerpoint Church #consideritpurejoy #Godshandsandfeet #selflessgiving

If you can’t join Seth in Mexico delivering food to needy orphanages, what is going on in your area that you can volunteer for? There is need all around us crying out for extra hands to meet those needs. Be the hands and feet of Jesus, power lifting not necessarily required.

 

Journaling—Again

 

The other day, reading something in a book my brother sent me (he asked for my opinion of Hope in the Dark: Believing God is Good When Life Is Not, by Craig Groeschel, and yes, I do recommend it) I was spurred to start journaling again. I say “again” because I’ve started and stopped journaling numerous times over the years. I’ve always felt rather disappointed in myself and a bit guilty for not seeming to be able to continue the practice. Journaling really can be beneficial in many ways.

For instance, I decided to pull down a couple of the journals I’ve saved from past years. There are probably half a dozen of them, mostly unfilled. First, I was surprised that I actually filled one whole journal with about a year and a half of notes. Pat on the back for that one!

Second, I wrote it during the last half of my cancer treatment; this particular journal started in September of 2008, in the midst of my chemo treatments, ten years ago last month. That I’ve had ten good, cancer-free years since that time is humbling and yet an occasion for rejoicing and giving praise to our good God and heavenly Father for his mercies to me and my family.

Third, along with putting recorded life events (and prayer requests and answers to prayer) in their rightful order and year, it answered a question I’ve had and others have asked me several times. It is a question I confess I didn’t know the answer to–when did I start writing my book, Brokenness to Beauty? Well, there it was, in black and white in my journal. Sometime in 2009 I began to compile my blog posts into a form that could be shaped into a book. So there it is if you ever happened to have asked me that question.

Another benefit of my journaling is that I’m reminded of insights God gave me in the past which I have been building on to the present. Truth is eternal; it doesn’t go out of vogue (at least not in God’s economy). I sometimes recorded lessons God was teaching me from his Word and I’m encouraged all over again reading them years later.

So as I take up pen and journal once again, I hope this time I will keep on writing. There is value in the written word, even our own words.

Do you journal? In what ways have you benefitted by it?

 

Photo by clairtrafton, words.jpg by clairetrafton XqcqdT.jpg

Back to Blogging

After four months away from blogging, I’m back and hope to stay here posting more often.  In May, you could say I was thrown a curveball, health-wise, by an exacerbation (a big word for worsening) of the MG (myasthenia gravis). I was out of commission for several weeks as a result.

Thank God, my strength is nearly back to where it was before the curveball hit me and knocked me down.

As I cried out to him with this new hit to my health, the Lord brought this verse to mind, “Cast your burden upon the Lord and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken” (Psalm 55:22 NASB).

I especially like the note in my Bible indicating the word “burden” can mean, “what he has given you.”

“What God has given me.” That put a completely new spin on the idea of a burden. Somehow, as bad as the burden might be, knowing God has given this burden to me for this time, and knowing God, it is for a reason, gives me hope. Even when I don’t know that reason or how long the ordeal.

How is that I have hope? My hope is rooted in the character of God, not circumstances.  I know God is compassionate and gracious, full of lovingkindness and truth (Exodus 34:6), and is righteous in all he does (Psalm 145:17).

And not only do I know it in my head from reading the words of Scripture. I have experienced God’s compassion and grace, his lovingkindness and truth and faithfulness. This experiential knowledge is part of me now.

 

Even when I cried out, “Why is this happening, God?” he reminded me to throw this curveball back to him.  Knowing that he wants me to give it back to him also gives me hope. I have confidence that “what God has given me” is not for my destruction but for my growth in grace, and God, who gave the burden, will hold me together and not allow me to be shaken to pieces (Colossians 1:17) for I belong to him by faith in Jesus Christ. I will not destruct, because his gracious hand is holding me (Psalm 37:24). Peace follows from the decision to trust God and throw the burden back onto him.

I cannot have hope and peace and confidence if I refuse to throw that burden back onto the Lord, if I turn my questions into a rant and accusation against God that refuses to remember all the goodness of the Lord poured out on my life.

I’m not referring here to an honest pouring out of your heart to God as you wrestle with the real circumstances you find yourself in. The psalmists did that all the time. But they came with humble hearts as well to the God they knew they could trust, even when it felt like he was absent.

I’m talking about continuing to accuse God and harden my heart. If I harden myself to his kindness, I may very well become so brittle that I will be shaken into a thousand pieces. I may very well self-destruct.

I do not want to go there. Ever. From that place, it is a hard, long road to get back to where I should be. And I don’t have to go there, I don’t even have to carry that heavy burden. God will.

If we give the burden back to him.

When we do our part of that verse (cast our cares on God), he does his part (keeps us together, keeps us from falling apart). I can attest to the truth of that.

This hope and peace God gives are available to anyone who will humbly come to Jesus, embrace the truth that God cares for us enough to carry our burden, and throw their burden on the Lord in the midst of their suffering. Hope and peace are there for us because God is faithful to do his part, holding us up and keeping us from falling apart.

Now, because of his goodness and faithfulness keeping me from being shaken to pieces, I am back at the keyboard creating blog posts.

What is threatening to shake your world? Be encouraged to trust in the goodness and faithfulness of the Lord in the midst of it.

 

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Photo by Liane Metzler on Unsplash

Love Does

“We can measure success by how many people attend church services on Sunday. Or we can measure success by how many people serve God and others on Monday.”[1]

Recently I’ve been pondering Hebrews 10:24, the verse that resonates with me as I think about the way I believe God wants to use me in his Kingdom work. “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds” (Hebrews 10:24 NIV). Whenever I sign a copy of my book, Brokenness to Beauty, I write the reference to this verse behind my signature.

At the end of the day, I want to measure the success of my life’s influence on others by how many people love and serve God and other people on Monday, and every day. Of course, I may never see that in my lifetime, but whatever I do—whether writing, speaking or any interacting with others—I want people, myself included, strengthened and challenged to do what the Scriptures teach: love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength and your neighbor as yourself. We’re all works in progress but we should be advancing in that direction.

There are many rich truths to pull out of this one verse. I don’t want to skip over them but like an archeologist carefully dig them out and lay them on the work table for us to consider. Where to start?

“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds” (Hebrews 10:24 NIV). Let’s start with a look at the meaning of the original Greek word translated love in English.

You may already know or have guessed this one. This love is the Greek word agape; the love God has demonstrated for us and for the whole world. Mounce[2] describes it as generosity and kindly concern. Strong describes it as affection or benevolence.[3]

Though we can define a word with other words, what does agape love look like in action?

Action is a good way of thinking about agape love because when Jesus said God loved the world, his love wasn’t just about words. God proved his love; he did something. “God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16 NIV, emphasis added).

God loved; God gave. This is the essence of agape love. It gives. As a result of God’s active, agape love, “we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth” (1 John 3:16-18 NIV, emphasis added).

God showed us what his love is, what his generous, giving love is. Therefore, we should be clear that when it comes to loving God and our neighbor, words alone aren’t enough. Agape love is love in action. Agape love is a giving love, even sacrificial giving love. It is not just any action though; agape love is rooted in putting in to practice the Word and will of God.

Jesus was clear on that point when he said, “21Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.” He went on to explain. “22 Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ 23 Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’” (Matthew 7:21–23 NIV, emphasis added).

With Jesus’ words in mind, we could say, “Not all those who say they are Christians, come to church, or even do great exploits in Jesus’ name will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only those who go out and do the will of our Father in heaven: loving God and people and serving them Monday and every day.”

And in order to do the will of God, we need to know the Word of God so we can put it into practice, thus doing the will of God. Then we will love and serve God and others Monday and every day.

How could your actions this week be expressions of agape love, rooted in the Word and will of God?

 

First Photo by Nina Strehl on Unsplash

Second Photo by Claire Trafton

Third Photo Crucified with Christ

[1] Dr. Jim Denison, Denison’s Forum https://www.denisonforum.org/columns/cultural-commentary/560-million-lottery-winner-can-remain-anonymous/

[2] William D. Mounce, Interlinear for the Rest of Us (Grand Rapids: Zondervan) 2006

[3] James Strong, Strong’s Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible (Peabody, MA: Hendrickson Publishers)

Treasures of Wisdom in a Dollar Store

You never know what you might find in a Dollar store. I stopped in there to buy some small paper plates, plastic forks, and napkins for the Mission Partnership meeting held at church today, and in the checkout line I spied this refrigerator magnet:

 

This must be the California surfer’s version of “When Life gives you lemons, make lemonade.” Lemonade, surfing, however you choose to say it, this is a good philosophy for life. Because we’ll all get lemons, or waves, at some time (or several times) in life.

And we need to know how to deal with them.

Don’t I know it!

Many, many people had encouraged me to share what I had been learning about surfing the waves that came into my life and making lemonade from the lemons on the tree that took root in my life when I was just a young teenager. I’ve had lots of years to learn “best practices” for dealing with difficulties and trials in life.

To share with others about learning to surf life’s waves and make lemonade from life’s lemons is the major reason I wrote Brokenness to Beauty. The subtitle says it all: Transforming Your Brokenness into a Beautiful Life. It is not easy, this kind of learning. It takes time and effort, persistence and patience but it is terribly important and so worthwhile.

And I’ve written down all these lessons, or at least most of them, in Brokenness to Beauty: Transforming Your Brokenness into a Beautiful Life.

It’s there for you, sort of like a mini-mentorship.

Or for someone you care about who is struggling, trying to keep their head above life’s waves.

Are you successfully learning to surf the waves coming into your life? How are you doing?

 

Brokenness to Beauty can be purchased at the online stores listed here, as well as other outlets. Click on the store name to purchase the book at Amazon , Barnes and Noble , Kobo Bookstore, and from the publisher, WestBow Press Bookstore.